{"id":3315,"date":"2020-12-29T00:45:15","date_gmt":"2020-12-29T00:45:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=3315"},"modified":"2020-12-29T00:45:15","modified_gmt":"2020-12-29T00:45:15","slug":"nhung-ky-nang-song-co-ban-can-thanh-thao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=3315","title":{"rendered":"NH\u1eeeNG K\u1ef8 N\u0102NG S\u1ed0NG C\u01a0 B\u1ea2N C\u1ea6N TH\u00c0NH TH\u1ea0O"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trang b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 b\u1ed9 quy t\u1eafc m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u00edch cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n.<\/em> Nh\u00e0 b\u00e1c h\u1ecdc Albert Einstein t\u1eebng n\u00f3i:\u00a0“Tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi.”<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00e2n l\u00fd chung trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n<\/em>. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ee7 quan, nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nhanh h\u01a1n.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Khi n\u00e0o n\u00ean tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n tin v\u00e0o l\u00fd tr\u00ed<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00fd tr\u00ed bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 – ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c<\/em>. B\u1ea1n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c khi \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n khoa h\u1ecdc, b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch S\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a Tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c (The Power of Intuition), Gary Klein n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng\u00a090% c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0a ra trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean l\u00fd tr\u00ed<\/em><\/strong>. T\u01b0 duy tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang.<\/em> Bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o n\u00ean tin l\u00fd tr\u00ed, khi n\u00e0o n\u00ean tin v\u00e0o tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/em><\/strong>. Vi\u1ec7c ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ee3p l\u00fd s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n t\u00ednh logic, t\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch quan v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch h\u01a1n tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Mark Twain n\u00f3i\u00a0“B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n n\u00ean d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 suy ng\u1eabm.”<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd xem khi n\u00e0o s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y, v\u00e0 h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe c\u1ea3 l\u00fd tr\u00ed l\u1eabn tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

2. Trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 phi\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5u, t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh si\u00eau ph\u00e0m<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 quan tr\u1ecdng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf kh\u00f4ng<\/em>?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y c\u00e1ch t\u1eadp trung \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng<\/em><\/strong>, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eb1m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m cao h\u01a1n<\/em>. \u00d4ng ch\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u00e1ch t\u1eadp trung l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o n\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 phi\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5u \u1edf kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i<\/em><\/strong>. Kyle Cease, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch I Hope I Screw This Up: How Falling In Love With Your Fears Can Change the World cho bi\u1ebft: “S\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1m b\u00e1o c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/strong>. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111ang k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n ra kh\u1ecfi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf b\u00ean trong; trong t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 g\u00ec, b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.”<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u00ean trong<\/em>. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00e1nh l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, v\u00ec v\u1eady b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m.<\/em> H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u1eafm v\u1eefng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u0103ng su\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u1eafm quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 n\u00ean b\u1ecb ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ed9 n\u00e3o gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 b\u1eafp. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n t\u1eadp trung t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, h\u00e3y luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp – l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch trong ng\u00e0y, chia nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf (30 \u0111\u1ebfn 45 ph\u00fat m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n ngh\u1ec9 gi\u1eefa ch\u1eebng), \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac v\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung h\u01a1n.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u00e3y chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o<\/em><\/strong> (lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5u g\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp trung).<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

3. C\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai (ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

“H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2. N\u00f3i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 trung th\u1ef1c. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi t\u00ednh to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t khi giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u m\u00e0 Ch\u00fang ta l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. <\/strong>Khi ch\u00fang ta l\u1eafng nghe v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang ta l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u1ea9n sau nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i. “<\/em>\u00a0– Roy T. Bennett<\/span><\/p>\n

Giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt<\/em><\/strong>. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp m\u1ea1ch l\u1ea1c b\u1eb1ng gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i v\u00e0 v\u0103n b\u1ea3n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/em><\/strong>. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m<\/em><\/strong> – n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m nhau<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng gi\u1ecfi, ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. Gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u1edd th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh – <\/em><\/strong>h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4n ngoan<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 th\u1eadt, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc<\/em><\/strong> h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan b\u1eb1ng 3 c\u00e1ch<\/em><\/strong>:\u00a0Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 suy t\u01b0<\/strong>, \u0111i\u1ec1u cao qu\u00fd nh\u1ea5t; Th\u1ee9 hai, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc<\/strong>, d\u1ec5 nh\u1ea5t; v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 ba theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/strong>, \u0111i\u1ec1u cay \u0111\u1eafng nh\u1ea5t.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/em><\/strong>. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea7u t\u01b0 cho s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/em><\/strong>, d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m, bi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng, d\u00f9 t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7<\/em><\/strong> – kinh nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n t\u1ed1t c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/em><\/strong>. \u00c1p d\u1ee5ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed5 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y l\u1ee3i \u00edch chung. S\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd s\u1ed1ng \u1edf qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/em>. Eckhart Tolle n\u00f3i:\u00a0“Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i.”<\/em> Kh\u00f4n ngoan l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0o quan \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn – xem x\u00e9t c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n mang t\u00ednh tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. Kh\u00f4n ngoan l\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n<\/em>, l\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy ph\u1ea3n bi\u1ec7n thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7<\/em>, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/em>.<\/strong> Do \u0111\u00f3 L\u00e3o T\u1eed cho r\u1eb1ng\u00a0“Bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh; bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. Th\u1ea1o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh; l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1edbi l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c l\u1ef1c “<\/em>\u00a0.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u00fd ngh\u0129a, vi\u00ean m\u00e3n v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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