{"id":3293,"date":"2020-12-17T00:49:05","date_gmt":"2020-12-17T00:49:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=3293"},"modified":"2020-12-17T00:49:05","modified_gmt":"2020-12-17T00:49:05","slug":"suy-ngam-ve-cac-loi-khuyen-cua-nhung-nguoi-thong-thai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=3293","title":{"rendered":"SUY NG\u1eaaM V\u1ec0 C\u00c1C L\u1edcI KHUY\u00caN C\u1ee6A NH\u1eeeNG NG\u01af\u1edcI TH\u00d4NG TH\u00c1I"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><strong>Sigmund Freud:<\/strong> <em>M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00c1o, \u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc<\/em>. \u0110\u00f3ng g\u00f3p quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c <em>kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi,<\/em> \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 <em>b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf ph\u00f2ng v\u1ec7 t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">1. <em>Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 &#8220;tr\u00eau m\u1ed9t t\u00fd, l\u00e0m g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u0103ng&#8221;, <strong>lu\u00f4n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac trong m\u1ecdi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">2. <strong>Ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc v\u00e0o th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/strong> <strong>th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">3. \u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 hai bi k\u1ecbch l\u1edbn: <strong>m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n; hai l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><em>\u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 hai ni\u1ec1m vui l\u1edbn:<\/em> <em>m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n, v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n theo \u0111u\u1ed5i v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/em>; <em>hai l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><em>4. <\/em><em>Hai th\u1ee9 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi:<\/em><strong><em> t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><strong>Alfred Adler:<\/strong> M\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00c1o. \u00d4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u00ean phong c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc nh\u00e2n v\u0103n, v\u00e0 <em>cha \u0111\u1ebb c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i<\/em>. \u00d4ng theo Freud \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi th\u1ea7n kinh, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i Freud.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">1. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ef1 ti kh\u00e1c nhau, <strong>b\u1edfi l\u1ebd ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u01b0u t\u00fa h\u01a1n, s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">2. <em>D\u0169ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">3. <strong><em>T\u00ednh &#8220;kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn&#8221;<\/em><\/strong> <em><strong>c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/strong> ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n hi v\u1ecdng cho ch\u00fang ta.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">4. <strong><em>Ai c\u0169ng hi v\u1ecdng m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean quan tr\u1ecdng, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/em><\/strong>, <em>nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em>, v<em>\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111i ch\u1ec7ch h\u01b0\u1edbng.<\/em> <strong><em>L\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u tu\u00e2n theo nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y: c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u1edbi xem l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">5. <em>\u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i, sinh m\u1ec7nh r\u1ea5t m\u1ecfng manh,<\/em> <strong><em>ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ph\u1ea3i kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eebng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111i t\u00ecm \u00fd ngh\u0129a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><strong>Carl Gustav Jung<\/strong>: M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi Th\u1ee5y S\u0129. N\u0103m 1907, \u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u1edbi Freud \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 <em>qu\u1ea3ng b\u00e1 l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft ph\u00e2n t\u00edch t\u00e2m l\u00fd trong 6 n\u0103m<\/em>, sau \u0111\u00f3, \u00f4ng &#8220;chia tay&#8221; v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a Freud, th\u00e0nh <em>l\u1eadp ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch Jung.<\/em> C\u00e1c l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft v\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng cho t\u1edbi nay v\u1eabn c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i chung.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">1. <strong><em>N\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111ang \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf<\/em><\/strong>. (<em>Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 m\u1ea3i mi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9, mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t \u0111i ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">2. <strong><em>C\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai<\/em><\/strong>. <em>Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 khi\u1ebfn <strong>b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong>.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">3. <em>\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0:<\/em> <strong><em>h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">4. <strong><em>M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 th\u1eafp s\u00e1ng l\u00ean ng\u1ecdn \u0111\u00e8n hi v\u1ecdng trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i!<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">5. <strong><em>M\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">6. <em>N\u1eeda \u0111\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1ebd thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ed1ng trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em>. <strong><em>V\u1eady th\u00ec n\u1eeda \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y \u0111i theo ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">7. <strong><em>Khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9<\/em>,<\/strong> <em>quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/em>, <strong><em>khi quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9<\/em><\/strong>, <em>t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t<\/em>. <strong><em>Hai th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><strong>Erich Fromm<\/strong>: Nh\u00e0 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc nh\u00e2n v\u0103n v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 <em>d\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a Freud<\/em> cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y sau hai cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn tranh th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. <em>L\u00fd thuy\u1ebft ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">1. <strong><em>M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y h\u00e3y ng\u1ed3i t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i 5 ph\u00fat, l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1ecbp th\u1edf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn n\u00f3, th\u1eed kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">2. <em>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi nhau<\/em>. <strong><em>N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u1ebft to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u1eady th\u00ec m\u1ecdi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/em><\/strong>. <em>N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, v\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><em>3. <strong>N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi h\u1ecd<\/strong><\/em>, <em>ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd<\/em>, <strong><em>ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i mong h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb m\u00e0 t\u00f4i hi v\u1ecdng,<\/em> <em>r\u1ed3i xem h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng<\/em><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">4. <em>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n t\u1ed1n s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c<\/em>, <strong><em>t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi ki\u1ebfn \u200b\u200bth\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c vun v\u00e9n.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><em>Ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em>, <em>ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee9u tinh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">5. B\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 cho \u0111i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\"><em>6.<\/em> <em>N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 c\u1ed9ng sinh ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a \u00edch k\u1ef7 ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">7. <em>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 v\u00ec em c\u1ea7n anh, n\u00ean y\u00eau anh<\/em>. <strong><em>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 v\u00ec em y\u00eau anh, n\u00ean anh c\u1ea7n em.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 20px;\">8. <strong><em>T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh<\/em><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">S\u01afU T\u1ea6M<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sigmund Freud: M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00c1o, \u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc. \u0110\u00f3ng g\u00f3p quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, l\u00fd [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[25],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3293"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3293"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3293\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3294,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3293\/revisions\/3294"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3293"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3293"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3293"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}