{"id":3141,"date":"2020-09-25T00:45:55","date_gmt":"2020-09-25T00:45:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=3141"},"modified":"2020-09-25T00:45:55","modified_gmt":"2020-09-25T00:45:55","slug":"nhung-ky-nang-giup-kiem-che-cam-xuc-ban-than","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=3141","title":{"rendered":"NH\u1eeeNG K\u1ef8 N\u0102NG GI\u00daP KI\u1ec0M CH\u1ebe C\u1ea2M X\u00daC B\u1ea2N TH\u00c2N"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi t\u1ef1 gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/em><\/strong> H\u00e3y suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd sau \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1edbm tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. T\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111ang \u1edf 25 n\u0103m sau<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng lo \u00e2u th\u01b0\u1eddng coi nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n hay m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c<\/em>. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec5n c\u1ea3nh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/em><\/strong>. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/em>. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c th\u00f4ng qua l\u0103ng k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/em><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n 25 n\u0103m n\u1eefa trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u00fd \u1ee9c xa x\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y 25 n\u0103m.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

T\u1eeb vi\u1ec5n c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay kh\u00f4ng? N\u00f3 c\u00f3 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c s\u1ebd g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng n\u0103m qua kh\u00f4ng? H\u00e3y suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 v\u00f2ng cung c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1edb ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o<\/em>?<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1edb n\u00f3, h\u00e3y \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 n\u00f3 v\u1edbi l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch 25 n\u0103m. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/em> N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c vi\u1ebft<\/strong> ra c\u00e1c suy ngh\u0129<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, Benjamin Franklin \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c th\u01b0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng t\u1ea1i Qu\u1ed1c h\u1ed9i Anh. Thay v\u00ec g\u1eedi n\u00f3, \u00f4ng ta nh\u00e9t b\u1ee9c th\u01b0 v\u00e0o ng\u0103n k\u00e9o. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u00f4ng ta b\u1edbt gi\u1eadn. Abraham Lincoln g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 “nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c th\u01b0 n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn”. Mark Twain c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1eebng gi\u1eef trong l\u00f2ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n mi\u1ebfng tr\u1ea3 mi\u1ebfng. H\u00edt s\u00e2u, r\u00fat \u200b\u200bb\u00fat v\u00e0 m\u1ea3nh gi\u1ea5y ra, tr\u00fat b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00ean n\u00f3. Sau khi vi\u1ebft xong, h\u00e3y x\u00e9 t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3<\/em><\/strong>. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. \u0110\u00e1nh l\u1eeba b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 khi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh lo l\u1eafng v\u00ec n\u00f3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ta theo \u0111u\u1ed5i m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/em>\u00a0\u0110i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 phi l\u00fd nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1eebng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i phi l\u00fd, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5, h\u00e3y h\u00ecnh dung b\u1ea1n trong chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o tr\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m, tay c\u1ea7m k\u1eb9p h\u1ed3 s\u01a1. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Cu\u1ed9c th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho ra b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0o v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c mang k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111i ph\u00e2n t\u00edch sau \u0111\u00f3<\/em>. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7m b\u1ed9 h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 trong t\u00e2m th\u1ec3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ghi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 r\u1ed3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Khi l\u00e0m xong, h\u00e3y h\u00ecnh dung b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ghi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0o h\u1ed3 s\u01a1.\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 qu\u1eb7c nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 t\u01b0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac lo l\u1eafng l\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1eadp c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m<\/em><\/strong>. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, h\u00e3y h\u00edt th\u1edf s\u00e2u. L\u1ea5y gi\u1ea5y b\u00fat. Vi\u1ebft ra t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p. V\u1edbi m\u1ed7i \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n vi\u1ebft ra<\/em>, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong>:<\/em> \u201cN\u1ebfu t\u00f4i b\u1ecf qua \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? \u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u00f3, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i: “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m\u201d th\u1eadt to v\u00e0 r\u00f5ng r\u1ea1c<\/em>. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng, h\u00e3y vi\u1ebft ra m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u1eeb 1-2 c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3. Theo th\u1eddi gian, b\u00e0i t\u1eadp n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111ang l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

5. H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ri\u00eang cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Thomas Edison \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng: \u201cSuy ngh\u0129 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n trong s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n<\/em><\/strong>\u201d.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00e0nh ba m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u00fat m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u00e1ch ly b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ng\u1eaft k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 v\u00e0 t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng (\u0111i b\u1ed9, \u0111\u1ea1p xe), d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/strong>.<\/em> Trong ba m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u00fat c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng<\/em><\/strong>. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ea3ng kho\u00e1i v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh h\u01a1n.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi t\u1ef1 gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. H\u00e3y suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd sau \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1edbm tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9. 1. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[25],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3141"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3141"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3141\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3142,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3141\/revisions\/3142"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3141"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3141"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3141"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}