{"id":2931,"date":"2020-06-30T00:34:09","date_gmt":"2020-06-30T00:34:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2931"},"modified":"2020-06-30T00:37:23","modified_gmt":"2020-06-30T00:37:23","slug":"nhung-buoc-co-ban-de-hinh-thanh-thoi-quen-tot-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2931","title":{"rendered":"NH\u1eeeNG \u00a0K\u1ef8 N\u0102NG C\u1ea6N C\u00d3 \u0110\u1ec2 L\u00d4I CU\u1ed0N NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00c1C"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kh\u00f4ng ai sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c<\/em>. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 3 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a c\u1ea7n n\u1eafm v\u1eefng n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y trong m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau, b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb cho ra r\u00eca hay c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? T\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn<\/em><\/strong>. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang hay sai khi t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c theo c\u00e1ch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i l\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nhau<\/em><\/strong>, v\u00ec v\u1eady con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t<\/em><\/strong>. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ai s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Michelle Tillis Lederman chia s\u1ebb trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch “11 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng”: “X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111\u1ed5i hay giao d\u1ecbch, m\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i<\/em>. C\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch cho c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 chung quy l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c th\u00edch v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00edch<\/em><\/strong>“.<\/span><\/p>\n

Chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng x\u00e2y n\u00ean m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t, n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Dale Carnegie \u2013 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch b\u00e1n ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d4ng vi\u1ebft: “M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eadn t\u00e2m ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/strong>“<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ai c\u0169ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng n\u00f3i v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 h\u1ecd y\u00eau th\u00edch. V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft h\u01a1n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u1edf ho\u1eb7c chuy\u1ec3n sang ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n<\/em><\/strong>. Trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0o, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u s\u1edf th\u00edch, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y gi\u00fap t\u0103ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean. Ngo\u00e0i ra, khi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang k\u1ec3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1eebng chen ngang v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ea7n \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft th\u00fac, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c m\u1ea1ch chuy\u1ec7n. Trong l\u00fac trao \u0111\u1ed5i, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u00ecm ra \u0111i\u1ec3m chung v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn cho h\u1ecd.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00ednh t\u00f2 m\u00f2 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/em>, trong l\u00fac tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0 g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eb9 hay nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1eafng nghe\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

L\u1eafng nghe ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung xem \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00f3i g\u00ec, hi\u1ec3u ch\u00fang v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t h\u1ecd<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lederman \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: “Trong nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi quen, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi”.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch, nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m chung c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dale Carnegie \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft: “H\u00e3y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. Khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e3i khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/em><\/strong>“<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng khi b\u1ea1n l\u1eafng nghe r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd gi\u00e1, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng ch\u1ebft ch\u00f3c m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m<\/em>. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i l\u1eafm v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, \u0111\u1eebng h\u1ed1i th\u00fac hay c\u1eaft l\u1eddi h\u1ecd.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u01afU T\u1ea6M<\/p>\n

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