{"id":2799,"date":"2020-05-11T00:28:13","date_gmt":"2020-05-11T00:28:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2799"},"modified":"2020-05-11T00:28:13","modified_gmt":"2020-05-11T00:28:13","slug":"tu-hoi-minh-thuoc-kieu-nguoi-the-nao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2799","title":{"rendered":"T\u1ef0 H\u1eceI M\u00ccNH THU\u1ed8C KI\u1ec2U NG\u01af\u1edcI TH\u1ebe N\u00c0O?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh, suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai: kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng, nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c,\u2026Nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 cho th\u1ea5y, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u1eady nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu n\u00e9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch g\u00ec?<\/em> <\/strong>Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u00a0Juliana Breines \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 bu\u1ed5i tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi trang Psychology Today v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. N\u1ebfu ghi nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh 5 lo\u1ea1i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd, ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 “Agreeableness” \u2013 s\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu cao. H\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5m \u00e1p, bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u.<\/span><\/p>\n

Breines cho bi\u1ebft: “H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft tha th\u1ee9, cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda sai”.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn cho r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edd \u0111i nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m, t\u00ednh x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m cao h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb, h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung tay g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n v\u00e0o l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c khi c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdc ph\u00e1<\/em>. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n \u00f4m b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, n\u00ean h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y<\/em>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 cao s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh n\u00e9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0a ra k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1edfi, ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i \u00e1nh \u0111\u00e8n s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, hay h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia\u00a0\u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra tr\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7m t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn qua t\u01b0\u1eddng Facebook c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cho th\u1ea5y: nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 cao h\u01a1n th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00edt ch\u00ea bai, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n n\u00e0o c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng khoe khoang tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i t\u1ecf ra ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n \u00edt c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u1eeb nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng thi\u00ean v\u1ecb, qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 n\u00e9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m trong ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y<\/em>. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. N\u1ebfu th\u00edch ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch l\u1ed7i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ho\u00e0i nghi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/em>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea7n t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. Khi th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n trong nh\u1eefng l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd b\u1ed7ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, mang t\u00e2m l\u00fd mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1p \u0111\u1ed5. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u00e2m tr\u00ed con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u00f3a quy ph\u1ea1m. H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u, chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng \u0111i theo khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd b\u1ecb h\u1ecd nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0, trong cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t n\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: “Li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111ang l\u1ea5y l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m th\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hay kh\u00f4ng<\/strong>?<\/em>“<\/span><\/p>\n

4. N\u1ebfu b\u1ed7ng d\u01b0ng gh\u00e9t ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do n\u00e0o c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ghen t\u1ef5 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd<\/em>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t v\u00f4 c\u1edb \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ghen t\u1ef5 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 v\u1eadn may c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em>. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p b\u1ed7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen th\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf h\u1ea1ng m\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u00e0 b\u00eau ri\u1ebfu. Kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u01a1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u0111e d\u1ecda khi th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi h\u1ecd<\/em>. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 t\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea1p \u0111\u1ed5 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u1ea5y.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh, suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai: kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng, nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c,\u2026Nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 cho th\u1ea5y, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[25],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2799"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2799"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2799\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2800,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2799\/revisions\/2800"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2799"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2799"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2799"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}