{"id":2762,"date":"2020-04-27T00:41:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T00:41:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2762"},"modified":"2020-04-27T00:41:57","modified_gmt":"2020-04-27T00:41:57","slug":"cung-suy-ngam-ve-khoang-cach-trong-cac-moi-quan-he","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2762","title":{"rendered":"C\u00d9NG SUY NG\u1eaaM V\u1ec0 KHO\u1ea2NG C\u00c1CH TRONG C\u00c1C M\u1ed0I QUAN H\u1ec6"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch s\u1ea3n sinh ra c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5t c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch n\u00ean m\u1edbi c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng kh\u00f4ng bao la \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd \u1edf gi\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng v\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch n\u00ean m\u1edbi c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u00eam, ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng v\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch n\u00ean m\u1edbi c\u00f3 tr\u0103ng khuy\u1ebft, tr\u0103ng tr\u00f2n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng quan t\u00e2m nh\u1edb nhung<\/em>. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau th\u1ef1c ra l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. C\u00e1ch nhau qu\u00e1 xa, quan h\u1ec7 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1edd nh\u1ea1t, nh\u01b0ng g\u1ea7n qu\u00e1 r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd sinh \u00e2n o\u00e1n<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00ean duy tr\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi duy tr\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p<\/em>. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u00f9 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ea5y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p<\/em><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng gian c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng kh\u00ed v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t l\u00e3nh th\u1ed5 m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 v\u1ea1ch ra cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m hay l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gian c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef g\u00ecn \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ef1 do, t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 trong c\u00e1i l\u00e3nh th\u1ed5 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng n\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 tri k\u1ef7 hay b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n, cho d\u00f9 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u, m\u1ed9t khi kh\u00f4ng gian c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t khi x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u1eabn nhau, kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea1o ph\u1ea1m, kh\u00f4ng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1eebng d\u00f9ng l\u00e1 ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh<\/em>, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta cho b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u quy\u1ec1n h\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1eb7t, l\u00e0m thay h\u1ecd. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00f4ng r\u1eddi, m\u1ecdi l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea5u<\/em><\/strong>.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi nhau c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, xa g\u1ea7n t\u00f9y m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc l\u00e0m b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n vui v\u1ebb, gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng xem th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/em>, c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ea1i v\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch. Xa nhau, th\u00ec th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng vui, m\u00e0 g\u1ea7n nhau l\u1ea1i n\u1ea3y sinh m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn.<\/span><\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y: M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 x\u1ea3y ra x\u00edch m\u00edch v\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1eb3ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c c\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi nhau l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng hay tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c l\u1eabn nhau. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 minh ch\u1ee9ng cho hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Theo l\u00fd m\u00e0 n\u00f3i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, c\u00e0ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi nhau, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u0169ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c ra, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng quy t\u1eafc con nh\u00edm<\/strong> trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/span><\/p>\n

Hai con nh\u00edm, n\u1ebfu ti\u1ebfn l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 g\u1ea7n nhau, gai c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ch\u1ec9 sau khi t\u00e1ch nhau ra xa h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, ch\u00fang m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf c\u1ea1nh nhau, n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a, s\u01b0\u1edfi \u1ea5m cho nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c ra gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng con nh\u00edm kia, n\u1ebfu s\u00e1t l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 g\u1ea7n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m nhau b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 xa l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a, s\u01b0\u1edfi \u1ea5m cho nhau.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Ch\u1ec9 khi duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhau, duy tr\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00fd mang \u0111\u1ebfn tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 \u1ea5m \u00e1p.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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