{"id":2734,"date":"2020-04-19T00:20:47","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T00:20:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2734"},"modified":"2020-04-19T00:23:05","modified_gmt":"2020-04-19T00:23:05","slug":"ban-da-biet-bi-mat-don-gian-de-song-lau-chua","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2734","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ea0N \u0110\u00c3 BI\u1ebeT B\u00cd M\u1eacT \u0110\u01a0N GI\u1ea2N \u0110\u1ec2 S\u1ed0NG L\u00c2U CH\u01afA?"},"content":{"rendered":"

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y:<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng hay tranh c\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4i, tranh c\u00e3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i, c\u1ea3 gi\u1eadn m\u1ea5t kh\u00f4n. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0ng l\u1eddi ra \u0111\u1ebfn mi\u1ec7ng l\u00e0 m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, th\u00e0nh l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng la m\u1eafng.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn, b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i tr\u00fat gi\u1eadn l\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan. Khi g\u1eb7p chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ee9t r\u1ee9t trong l\u00f2ng th\u00ec c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00eam kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00e0ng ngh\u0129 c\u00e0ng t\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y<\/em>. V\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 r\u1eddi v\u00e0o gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, t\u1eeb xa x\u01b0a, c\u00e1c cao nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n c\u01a1n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, l\u00e0 thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9c ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00f2n th\u1ee9 thu\u1ed1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng sinh r\u1ebb ti\u1ec1n nh\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 KH\u00d4NG GI\u1eacN D\u1eee<\/em><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn “60 tu\u1ed5i”<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i v\u00ec tranh c\u00e3i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p m\u00e0 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ng\u1ea5t x\u1ec9u, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a \u0111i c\u1ea5p c\u1ee9u nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng qua kh\u1ecfi.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c l\u00e1 trong thang m\u00e1y, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng nghe, l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n to ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i qua n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn tranh c\u00e3i, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 trong c\u01a1n th\u1ecbnh n\u1ed9, \u00f4ng ta ph\u00e1t b\u1ec7nh tim m\u1ea1ch qua \u0111\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a t\u1eebng \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft: B\u1ec7nh t\u1eeb mi\u1ec7ng m\u00e0 ra v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 t\u1eeb t\u00e2m m\u00e0 ra. V\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1u sinh ra t\u1eeb t\u00e2m, t\u00e2m c\u00f3, s\u1ef1 \u1eaft c\u00f3, t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, \u1eaft t\u1ecbnh<\/em><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. B\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c thao t\u00fang c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn “70 tu\u1ed5i”<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: “B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1eddi ti\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.”<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y u u\u1ea5t, \u0111au kh\u1ed5, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Chu Du v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00ed kh\u00e1i tao nh\u00e3, \u0111a m\u01b0u t\u00fac tr\u00ed nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i ch\u1ebft v\u00ec t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn; hay t\u00e0i hoa nh\u01b0 L\u00e2m \u0110\u1ea1i Ng\u1ecdc c\u0169ng v\u00ec nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n v\u1eb7t v\u00e3nh m\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng ra sao.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0i, h\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eadn d\u1eef<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1eadn d\u1eef m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn “80 tu\u1ed5i”<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n t\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? \u0110\u00e1p \u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e1n th\u00e0nh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn d\u1eef tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ebft v\u00ec gi\u1eadn d\u1eef.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u00e0 th\u01a1, nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c Goethe \u0111i d\u1ea1o tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecf ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee7 cho 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i th\u00ec g\u1eb7p hai nh\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

“T\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho k\u1ebb ngu xu\u1ea9n” \u2013 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh n\u00f3i.<\/span><\/p>\n

“T\u00f4i th\u00ec l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i”, Goethe n\u00f3i xong, m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi b\u01b0\u1edbc sang b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u00e0 v\u0103n, nh\u00e0 thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 Dale Carnegie t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh.”<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay vi\u1ec7c k\u1ef3 qu\u1eb7c, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac trong l\u00f2ng kh\u00f4ng vui, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c, h\u00e3y xem nh\u1eb9 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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4. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn “90 tu\u1ed5i”<\/strong><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n

M\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1, b\u1edfi th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f4i qua s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i b\u00ean m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi c\u00e1i t\u00e2m thanh t\u1ecbnh, \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ni\u1ec1m vui, bi\u1ebft \u01a1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ecdi m\u00e2u thu\u1eadt b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim \u1ea5m \u00e1p, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u00e2m thanh t\u1ecbnh, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng theo \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi c\u00e0ng \u0111i c\u00e0ng r\u1ed9ng th\u00eanh thang, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, theo con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e0<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn “100 tu\u1ed5i”<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Theo m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 gi\u00fap nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn 100 tu\u1ed5i: y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 di truy\u1ec1n chi\u1ebfm 15%, y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i chi\u1ebfm 10%, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n y t\u1ebf chi\u1ebfm 8%, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n th\u1eddi ti\u1ebft chi\u1ebfm 7% v\u00e0 60% c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh c\u1ee5 gi\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 gi\u00fap cho c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 gi\u00e0 tham gia kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u01a1n 100 tu\u1ed5i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, t\u1eadp luy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 l\u00e0 KH\u00d4NG N\u1ed4I GI\u1eacN.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p ng\u00e0y nay, kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 thu\u1ed1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng sinh cho tr\u00e1i tim con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u1eddi gian nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u00f4i \u0111i, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y tr\u00f4i qua \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111ang r\u00fat ng\u1eafn t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt vui v\u1ebb, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n

S\u01afU T\u1ea6M<\/p>\n

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B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: Khi b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng hay tranh c\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4i, tranh c\u00e3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i, c\u1ea3 gi\u1eadn m\u1ea5t kh\u00f4n. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0ng l\u1eddi ra \u0111\u1ebfn mi\u1ec7ng l\u00e0 m\u1ea5t […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[25],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2734"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2734"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2734\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2737,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2734\/revisions\/2737"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2734"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2734"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2734"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}