{"id":2357,"date":"2020-01-13T02:44:22","date_gmt":"2020-01-13T02:44:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2357"},"modified":"2020-01-13T02:46:07","modified_gmt":"2020-01-13T02:46:07","slug":"ban-nghi-gi-khi-bi-nguoi-khac-chi-trich","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2357","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ea0N NGH\u0128 G\u00cc KHI B\u1eca NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00c1C CH\u1ec8 TR\u00cdCH M\u00ccNH?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ch\u1eb3ng ai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui khi b\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch sai l\u1ea7m, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft l\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m b\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea1p \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea1i t\u00e0i.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ai th\u00e8m ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi sau khi d\u00f9ng b\u1eefa th\u00ec b\u1ecb d\u00ednh nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh th\u1ee9c \u0103n x\u1ea5u x\u00ed tr\u00ean r\u0103ng. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00ean anh ta c\u1ee9 \u0111i kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i, t\u1ef1 tin g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t h\u00e0m r\u0103ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 coi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1eed ngh\u0129 xem n\u1ebfu ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mong c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf m\u00ecnh c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t, hay th\u00edch m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb7c k\u1ec7 v\u00e0 c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c mang m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t k\u00e9m duy\u00ean?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng\u00a0sai l\u1ea7m, thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng v\u1eady, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho ta x\u1ea5u x\u00ed ho\u1eb7c ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n nguy c\u01a1 g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 hay bi\u1ebft. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i t\u1ecf ra t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn khi b\u1ecb g\u00f3p \u00fd hay nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. L\u00fd do h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00ec h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh sai nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f4i khi, l\u00e0 do c\u00e1ch g\u00f3p \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1ng l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i \u1ea5y cho ta, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n hay t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ebft b\u1ea9n tr\u00ean h\u00e0m r\u0103ng kia kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i m\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n khi\u1ebfn g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t ta th\u00eam x\u1ea5u, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i n\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00ec ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd g\u00ec h\u01a1n. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi g\u00f3p \u00fd, ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 sai th\u00ec hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang th\u00eam l\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ebfn cho ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ch\u1ec9 ra l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang th\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y \u0111ang gi\u00fap cho ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean, b\u1ecb n\u00f3i l\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3, \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 l\u00e0 khi ta m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai ch\u1ec9 ra gi\u00fap cho ta<\/em>. V\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 l\u1ed7i \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta h\u01a1n h\u1ebft.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. M\u00e3i c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 l\u1ea1c \u1edf ch\u00e2u Phi, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ed5 d\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 s\u00e1ng ch\u1ebf ra m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p b\u1eaft kh\u1ec9 r\u1ea5t nhanh g\u1ecdn m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng t\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kho\u00e9t v\u00e0o trong v\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7 nh\u1ecf ch\u1ec9 v\u1eeba kh\u00edt cho m\u1ed9t c\u00e1nh tay c\u1ee7a con kh\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o. Sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1eb7t tr\u00e1i chu\u1ed1i \u1edf trong c\u00e1i l\u1ed7 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e1c m\u1ea3nh v\u1ecf chu\u1ed1i \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ee5 kh\u1ec9 t\u1edbi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi m\u1ed9t con kh\u1ec9 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0a tay v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y tr\u00e1i chu\u1ed1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong. Nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e1i chu\u1ed1i r\u1ed3i th\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o r\u00fat tay ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa, v\u00ec k\u00edch th\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i l\u1ed7 ch\u1ec9 v\u1eeba cho m\u1ed9t b\u00e0n tay du\u1ed7i th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a con kh\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Do kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 suy x\u00e9t v\u00e0 ngoan c\u1ed1 gi\u1eef kh\u01b0 kh\u01b0 l\u1ea5y tr\u00e1i chu\u1ed1i, n\u00ean con kh\u1ec9 c\u1ee9 m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, r\u1ed3i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t m\u1ea1ng khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 s\u0103n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00ednh c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p m\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu kh\u00f4n ngoan th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac h\u1ea1i ch\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf!<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00ec ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng hay b\u1ecb hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea7m. Ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c sau khi \u0111\u00e3 xem x\u00e9t v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 theo nhi\u1ec1u chi\u1ec1u, nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, g\u00f3p \u00fd t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p hay b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7 l\u00e0 c\u1ee9 kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng gi\u1eef ch\u1eb7t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam th\u00f4ng tin, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Robert Anson Heinlein – b\u1eadc th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 v\u0103n khoa h\u1ecdc vi\u1ec5n t\u01b0\u1edfng M\u1ef9, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: “T\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4n ngoan h\u01a1n nh\u1edd v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u1ea4y v\u1eady m\u00e0, khi c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 g\u00f3p \u00fd, ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t, sai l\u1ea7m cho ta th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang “\u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1ea1m” \u0111\u1ebfn s\u0129 di\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong l\u00f2ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u1edfi l\u00ean s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00f9 ngh\u1ecbch, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng gay g\u1eaft nh\u01b0 c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u1ec3 cho nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea5n \u00e1t \u0111i l\u00fd tr\u00ed th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 xem nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fang hay kh\u00f4ng, m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i ra sao. Trong \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ea7y th\u00f9 h\u1eadn nh\u1eafm v\u00e0o c\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang ch\u1ec9 l\u1ed7i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh c\u1ea7n xem x\u00e9t:\u00a0“Anh ta ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ai m\u00e0 d\u00e1m n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf? H\u1eeb, anh ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 anh kh\u00f4n h\u01a1n t\u00f4i \u00e0? Anh th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 hay ho t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u c\u01a1 ch\u1ee9\u2026”.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i\u1ec7u h\u00f3a m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, do \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m, d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1eb7c n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u1ee9 th\u1ebf, th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i quay ra c\u00f4ng k\u00edch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, moi m\u00f3c khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u0103ng m\u1ea1 nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00e1c \u00fd. Cho d\u00f9 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o th\u00ec l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec1m h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 sau.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn sai l\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi hay t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c ra, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ecb c\u00f4ng k\u00edch v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00f4i th\u00fac trong l\u00f2ng mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i khi b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i l\u1ed7i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u1edfi sinh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u1ea3<\/em>. V\u00ec th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t khi nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac x\u1ea5u \u1ea5y n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a ch\u00fang b\u1eb1ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn cho ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt: Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh sai l\u1ea7m hay thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi hay t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean khi\u1ebfn n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ea1i. T\u00e2m an \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho ta c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed th\u00edch h\u1ee3p<\/em>. Khi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ecb k\u1ef7 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i g\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf “t\u00f4i \u0111\u00fang, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi sai”.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m hay \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nhau. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng nh\u1edd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n \u1edf m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3, n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn nhau b\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/em>. B\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c che gi\u1ea5u, l\u1ea5p li\u1ebfm hay ch\u1ec9 xem x\u00e9t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mang l\u1ea1i ch\u00fat l\u1ee3i \u00edch thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c n\u00e0o. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn cho ch\u00fang ta nhi\u1ec1u h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u00fd l\u1ebd r\u1eb1ng “t\u00ednh t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng s\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c” \u0111\u1ec3 bao bi\u1ec7n cho nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u01b0a hay ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng k\u1ef3 th\u1ef1c, ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 mang s\u1eb5n nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh x\u1ea5u, mang s\u1eb5n nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m. L\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft b\u1ea9n d\u00ednh tr\u00ean th\u00e2n ta, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00e0m s\u1ea1ch th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00e2m th\u00e1i c\u1edfi m\u1edf l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m. S\u1ef1 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y gi\u00fap cho ch\u00fang ta chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac x\u1ea5u \u00e1c nh\u1eafm v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng t\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn cho ta b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu ho\u1eb7c t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 g\u00f3p \u00fd, ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i, ch\u1ec9 l\u1ed7i n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, ho\u1eb7c ta kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1n th\u00e0nh \u00fd ki\u1ebfn n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ta ph\u1ea3i gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf, h\u1eadn th\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. \u00dd ki\u1ebfn hay quan \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ngay c\u1ea3 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m theo th\u1eddi gian. Cho n\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i ra, cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn hay v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a, v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y bu\u1ed9c ta ph\u1ea3i suy x\u00e9t v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4n ngoan h\u01a1n.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1edf d\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00eanh m\u00f4ng v\u00e0 s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m l\u00e0 do bi\u1ebft h\u1ea1 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, k\u1ebb n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n th\u00ec lu\u00f4n cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u. Khi t\u00e2m ta r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 ph\u00e1t sinh m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i c\u0169ng nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 an l\u1ea1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 do ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cho m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

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