{"id":2332,"date":"2020-01-11T02:18:20","date_gmt":"2020-01-11T02:18:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2332"},"modified":"2020-01-11T14:34:12","modified_gmt":"2020-01-11T14:34:12","slug":"nhung-ky-nang-kho-hoc-nhung-gia-tri-va-rat-can-cho-cuoc-song","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2332","title":{"rendered":"NH\u1eeeNG K\u1ef8 N\u0102NG KH\u00d3 H\u1eccC NH\u01afNG GI\u00c1 TR\u1eca V\u00c0 R\u1ea4T C\u1ea6N CHO CU\u1ed8C S\u1ed0NG"},"content":{"rendered":"

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 h\u01b0u \u00edch nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng chi\u1ebfm th\u1eddi gian, kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y \u0111i m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i, n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: “\u0110\u00e2u l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft?<\/strong>“<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Sau \u0111\u00e2y Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng suy ng\u1eabm:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n gi\u00e0u k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m hay \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng b\u1ecf qua trong kinh doanh hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m – l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn – l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u00fap nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 tr\u1edf n\u00ean tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi.<\/strong> \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m trong tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9i th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 th\u1edd \u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c l\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

2. L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb9o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Do \u0111\u00f3 d\u00f9 b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, h\u00e3y thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00eam th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i<\/strong><\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1eddi gian ng\u1ee7 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady h\u01a1n, n\u00f3i chung n\u00f3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 ngon h\u01a1n<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao nh\u1ea5t. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n b\u00e1m s\u00e1t n\u00f3<\/strong><\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00f3 h\u1ecdc nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch. C\u00e1i kh\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u1edf ch\u1ed7 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 l\u00ean l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh th\u1eadt k\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Nh\u1edd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n, trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng:\u00a0\u2018B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1edd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n. T\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh t\u00edch chung ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec anh ta \u0111ang g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1\u2019.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 kh\u00f3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh, b\u1edfi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i hay b\u1ea5t t\u00e0i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y t\u1eeb Tr\u01b0\u1eddng Kinh doanh Harvard cho th\u1ea5y l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c. Theo c\u00e1c t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1edd ai \u0111\u00f3 cho l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, b\u1ea1n th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh ho\u1eb7c chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb h\u1ecd.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

5. Suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Suy cho c\u00f9ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f3 quan tr\u1ecdng<\/strong>, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n khi kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 duy tr\u00ec th\u00f3i quen t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c m\u1edbi hay \u0111ang th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 \u00e1n quan tr\u1ecdng, ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh quan tr\u1ecdng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n duy tr\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 lo\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u00e0o<\/em>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d4ng n\u00f3i, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec9nh cao, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec v\u1ecb tr\u00ed h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1n v\u00e0 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Lo chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u0129a m\u0169i v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00edch l\u1ee3i g\u00ec v\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1n th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 t\u00e0i nguy\u00ean. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ch\u0129a m\u0169i v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c<\/strong>.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

8. L\u1eafng nghe<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng<\/em><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nicole Nicole Lipkin – t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n\u00a0“What Keeps Leaders Up At Night”\u00a0<\/em>n\u00f3i:\u00a0“H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta \u1edf n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb qu\u00e1 t\u1ea3i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m – tin nh\u1eafn t\u1ee9c th\u00ec, \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i reo.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t m\u1eb9o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nghe cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i:\u00a0“M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u nhau<\/strong>.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

9. Bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o n\u00ean im l\u1eb7ng<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Roshna Nazir vi\u1ebft:\u00a0“B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i lang thang kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i than v\u00e3n v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 \u0111ang quay l\u01b0ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n im l\u1eb7ng.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n n\u00ean gi\u1eef cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. Anwesha Jana vi\u1ebft:\u00a0“Khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng, hay b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ed1t ra b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong \u0111\u1ea7u. Sau \u0111\u00f3, l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Gi\u1eef im l\u1eb7ng khi b\u1ea1n k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t<\/em>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

10. B\u1ecf qua tin \u0111\u1ed3n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Jason T Widjaja vi\u1ebft:\u00a0“\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng.”<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Theo \u00f4ng, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch g\u00e2y m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng tin d\u1ec5 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 bu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng bu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. B\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u00e3y c\u00e1ch xa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp.\u00a0“N\u00e0y, xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u1eaft ngang nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nghe nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d4ng vi\u1ebft:\u00a0“Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng nghe nh\u1eefng tin \u0111\u1ed3n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 v\u00f4 gi\u00e1. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 L\u00f2ng tin<\/strong>.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

11. T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Theo nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac Matt Killingsworth th\u00ec: “Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. \u00d4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng 47% th\u1eddi gian, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang l\u00e0m. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111ang l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/strong>“<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd th\u1eabn th\u1edd b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 khi h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00edch con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i l\u00e0m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00e1n ng\u1eaft nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c \u0111i l\u00e0m thay v\u00ec n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c. Th\u1eadt ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

13. L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 suy ngh\u0129<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/em>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

14. H\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t ngo\u1ea1i ng\u1eef m\u1edbi<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 m\u1edf ra cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n m\u1edbi v\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Hungary v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp Metaphor English v\u00e0 CEO blog Bal\u00e1zs Csigi:\u00a0“Th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o ti\u1ebfng Anh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng kinh ng\u1ea1c trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u01b0 duy m\u1edbi, m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1edbi v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 m\u1edbi”.\u00a0<\/em>B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 v\u1eady b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Csigi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o t\u1eebng ch\u00fat v\u0103n h\u00f3a, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u00e0o l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

15. D\u00e1m n\u00f3i<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta<\/em>. Ngay c\u1ea3 \u00f4ng tr\u00f9m kinh doanh ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 Warren Buffett c\u0169ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f4n.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft ti\u1ec3u s\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh – Alice Schroeder – trong\u00a0“The Snowball: Warren Buffett and the Business of Life”<\/em>:\u00a0“Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3 tr\u0103m l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp trong kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc “Dale Carnegie” \u0111\u1ec3 chinh ph\u1ee5c n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Buffett n\u00f3i:\u00a0“Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh – ch\u1ec9 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3<\/strong>.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

16. Th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n trung th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 x\u1eed, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec hay ho \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

COO c\u1ee7a Facebook – Sheryl Sandberg – l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 radical candor (th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o bi\u1ebft th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 s\u1ebb chia). Do \u0111\u00f3, g\u00f3p \u00fd ch\u1ec9 kh\u00e1c nhau \u1edf ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdc t\u1ee9c. Khi th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Radical Candor, h\u00e3y d\u00f9ng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb vi\u1ebft t\u1eaft KHNTC \u0111\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 n\u00f3: Radical Candor l\u00e0\u00a0Khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, H\u1eefu \u00edch, Ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, Tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng C\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ho\u00e1.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

17. Th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh sai l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u\u00a0“kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t<\/em><\/strong>.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 CEO c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty l\u1edbn c\u0169ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ginni Rometty, CEO c\u1ee7a IBM, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00e1o Forbes r\u1eb1ng:\u00a0“Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec sai l\u1ea7m h\u01a1n khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb sai l\u1ea7m.”<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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