{"id":2293,"date":"2020-01-07T08:50:16","date_gmt":"2020-01-07T08:50:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2293"},"modified":"2020-01-07T08:50:16","modified_gmt":"2020-01-07T08:50:16","slug":"ban-dang-o-buoc-nao-trong-qua-trinh-hoc-hoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2293","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ea0N \u0110ANG \u1ede B\u01af\u1edaC N\u00c0O TRONG QU\u00c1 TR\u00ccNH H\u1eccC H\u1eceI?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ai c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed3, nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m theo quy t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y<\/em>. \u0110\u00f4i khi, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nhanh h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i r\u00e8n cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ng\u1eabm:<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 1:<\/em> T\u00edch l\u0169y<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u00ean t\u00e0i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft, v\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u00edch l\u0169y ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh<\/em>. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c nhau, nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn suy ngh\u0129 ho\u1eb7c t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf s\u0129 di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00edch l\u0169y ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p, nh\u1ecf gi\u1ecdt. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed3 s\u1ebd v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111i h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd \u00edt ph\u1ea3i \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00f2ng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh, kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 trong nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 2<\/em>: Nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau, kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u00fac c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00ec v\u1eady, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi \u0111i t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng th\u1eadt t\u00e2m hay ch\u1ec9 mi\u1ec5n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai s\u00e1ng l\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh kh\u1ea9n \u0111i nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u00e0 gi\u00e0u hay ngh\u00e8o, l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt cao c\u1ea5p hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng\u2026 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec d\u00f9ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i thu ho\u1ea1ch nhi\u1ec1u tri th\u1ee9c h\u01a1n, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec d\u00f9ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i t\u00edch l\u0169y s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng k\u1ec3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f3<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 3: Th\u00edch nghi<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh th\u00edch nghi<\/em>. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec, ngay c\u1ea3 khi tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t phong ph\u00fa, th\u00ec khi \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n cao hay th\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5p, th\u00f4ng qua h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u1ee9ng nhanh h\u01a1n, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n cao, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi g\u1ea1t th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00edch \u1ee9ng nhanh v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed3 hay kh\u00f4ng, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a anh ta trong m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh lu\u00f4n mang trong m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, th\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1o m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi, \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00fap h\u1ecd t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c danh ti\u1ebfng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1n<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 4<\/em>: L\u1ed9 di\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi \u0111\u00e3 t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1nh, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch “l\u1ed9 di\u1ec7n”, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n<\/em>, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 tham gia c\u1ea1nh tranh m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb hay doanh nghi\u1ec7p. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7t \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, b\u1edfi t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u01b0\u1edbc sang m\u1ed9t trang m\u1edbi. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed3, s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111i h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i, t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t \u0111i t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c t\u1ecf ra ta \u0111\u00e2y hay \u0111\u1eafc \u00fd.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 5<\/em>: B\u00f9ng n\u1ed5<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Sau khi “l\u1ed9 di\u1ec7n” m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian s\u1ebd l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n “b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5<\/em>” khi th\u1ef1c l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 “ch\u00edn” nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn v\u1eabn s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n duy tr\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 tr\u1ea7m \u1ed5n v\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng tin v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1ecf ra ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea5u tranh l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ng\u1ea1o m\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, d\u1eabu sao th\u00ec “ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft \u00edt th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i \u00edt.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Louisa May Alcott, m\u1ed9t ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft gia ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: S\u1ef1 ki\u00eau c\u0103ng l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng thi\u00ean t\u00e0i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng hay nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb b\u1ecf qua qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u, v\u00e0, s\u1ef1 quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng l\u00e0 t\u00ednh khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Ai c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed3, nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m theo quy t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[25],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2293"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2293"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2293\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2295,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2293\/revisions\/2295"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2293"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2293"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2293"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}