{"id":2186,"date":"2019-12-29T13:31:49","date_gmt":"2019-12-29T13:31:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2186"},"modified":"2019-12-29T13:36:34","modified_gmt":"2019-12-29T13:36:34","slug":"tai-sao-truoc-khi-thanh-cong-chung-ta-nen-thau-hieu-that-bai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/?p=2186","title":{"rendered":"T\u1ea0I SAO TR\u01af\u1edaC KHI TH\u00c0NH C\u00d4NG CH\u00daNG TA N\u00caN TH\u1ea4U HI\u1ec2U TH\u1ea4T B\u1ea0I?"},"content":{"rendered":"

V\u00ec cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng, ai m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ai m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i cay \u0111\u1eafng<\/em> nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh l\u00e0 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eadp tan qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 tr\u00e8o l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng t\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f9ng. Ngay t\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb s\u00e2u trong tinh th\u1ea7n, nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 bi quan<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi<\/em>. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ee9t b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong \u0111\u1ea7u, quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u ra r\u1eb1ng, mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111i v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc d\u00f9 tr\u00ean l\u01b0ng g\u1ed3ng g\u00e1nh nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Cho d\u00f9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i hay kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb k\u1ef9: C\u00e0ng b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i c\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, c\u00e1 ch\u00e9p mu\u1ed1n h\u00f3a r\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua V\u0169 m\u00f4n – Ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u00fat ra t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc r\u00fat ra t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t<\/em>: <\/strong>M\u1ed7i khi m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi mu\u1ed1n d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng: D\u1ef1a n\u00fai – n\u00fai \u0111\u1ed5, d\u1ef1a ng\u01b0\u1eddi – ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u00e0y nay, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a n\u00e0o v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc v\u00e0 l\u00e2u b\u1ec1n h\u01a1n ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh<\/em>. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u1ecdn n\u00fai s\u1eebng s\u1eefng gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ea5t tr\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd thua cu\u1ed9c<\/em>. Cho d\u00f9 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ti\u1ec1m l\u1ef1c nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong, d\u00f9 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, d\u00f9 kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua. Ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 d\u0169ng kh\u00ed th\u00ec sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i hi\u1ec7n tr\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9 hai<\/em>:\u00a0<\/strong>Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc r\u01a1i b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f9ng, t\u1ee5t xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e1y c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i l\u00ean<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u1eebng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: “N\u1ebfu v\u1eadn m\u1ec7nh t\u1ea1o cho ta m\u1ed9t v\u1ef1c s\u00e2u trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ta s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u1ec9nh cao c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/em>.” N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta r\u01a1i v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, sa c\u01a1 l\u1ee1 v\u1eadn r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e1y v\u1ef1c th\u1eb3m l\u1ea1i ch\u00ecm trong \u0111au kh\u1ed5, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00ed ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd m\u00e3i m\u00e3i loanh quanh lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi hai ch\u1eef “ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n”.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu l\u1ea5y h\u1ebft d\u0169ng kh\u00ed t\u1eeb s\u00e2u trong l\u00f2ng, d\u00e1m \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nguy hi\u1ec3m t\u1eeb v\u00e1ch n\u00fai v\u1ef1c s\u00e2u, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i l\u00ean d\u00f9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u gian tru\u00e2n tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n r\u1eddi xa v\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e1y c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 tr\u00e8o l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh n\u00fai.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9 ba<\/em>: <\/strong>Thay v\u00ec gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, sao kh\u00f4ng tranh \u0111ua<\/em>?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb7c k\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef ph\u00e1t ti\u1ebft ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c cho c\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n<\/em>. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung ph\u00e1t huy s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u00ecm ra kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u1ed5i tr\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng khai th\u00e1c v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean<\/em>. Thay v\u00ec m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c tranh \u0111ua, ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh l\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u01a1n cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9 t\u01b0<\/em>: <\/strong>H\u1ebft th\u1ea3y qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd qua, sau c\u01a1n m\u01b0a tr\u1eddi l\u1ea1i s\u00e1ng<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec kh\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 l\u00f2ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ec1n, \u0111\u00e0o n\u00fai v\u00e0 l\u1ea5p bi\u1ec3n, quy\u1ebft ch\u00ed \u1eaft l\u00e0m n\u00ean. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tin v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n gian kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai t\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1ng sau n\u00e0y. Khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, tinh th\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u00e1ng s\u1ee7a th\u00ec t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec m\u00e3i m\u00e3i d\u1eadm ch\u00e2n t\u1ea1i ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n hay th\u1ea5i b\u1ea1i, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n d\u00e1m \u0111\u1eb7t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n n\u1eafm l\u1ea5y t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong tay.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Hi\u1ec3u l\u00fd do v\u00ec sao th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00ec s\u1ee3 g\u00e3y ch\u00e2n, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec s\u1ee3 g\u00e3y ch\u00e2n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o ch\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e3y<\/em>. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 li\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o m\u00e0 <\/em>m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady<\/em>:<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

–\u00a0 D\u1ec5 b\u1ecb xao l\u00e3ng:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 xao l\u00e3ng c\u00f3 \u1edf kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ta qu\u00ean \u0111i m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau hay \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/em>. S\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0, ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u01b0u ti\u00ean nh\u1eefng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c khi bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t \u1edf kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o<\/em>. H\u00e3y th\u1eed m\u1ecdi l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c v\u00e0 xem \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta \u00edt b\u1ecb xao l\u00e3ng nh\u1ea5t<\/em>. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ti\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/span><\/p>\n

– Thi\u1ebfu ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u thi\u1ebfu ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00e1c nhau. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, gien, v\u0103n h\u00f3a,..<\/em>. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho ta. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/em>. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

–\u00a0 N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/em>. Khi s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u1eebng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap ta \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, gi\u00fap ta ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 m\u1edf ra nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ea3 thi. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy t\u1eeb “ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t” th\u00e0nh “h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t”. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y tranh th\u1ee7 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c xung quanh b\u1ea1n<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

– Tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u0103n b\u1ec7nh tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn d\u1eabn t\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/em>. Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho l\u1ea7n sau. N\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n. Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ch\u00fang ta hay tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n nh\u1ea5t. Mu\u1ed1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u x\u00ed n\u00e0y, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m l\u00e0 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111ang tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ta v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng h\u1ebft ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/em>. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 “ng\u00e3 v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc”.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. C\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n 3 \u0111i\u1ec1u sau \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 “ng\u00e3 v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc”.<\/span><\/p>\n

– Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro<\/em>, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 qu\u00e1 cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed5 b\u1ec3. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng hay ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n trong tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn ta \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 sai k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. S\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/em>. \u0110\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

– Hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 do ch\u00fang ta t\u00ednh to\u00e1n sai, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh sai, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 may m\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u1ef1c ra th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ta m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9, v\u00ec v\u1eady, ta c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m, ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u. H\u00e3y d\u00f9ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea1p ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

– Ki\u00ean tr\u00ec b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ki\u00ean tr\u00ec l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/em>. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed7i khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 hai l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn: ng\u1ed3i g\u1eb7m nh\u1ea5m s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c l\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Ki\u00ean tr\u00ec \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, \u0111am m\u00ea v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eab<\/em>n. Quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p so s\u00e1nh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00e2ng t\u1ea1 \u1edf ph\u00f2ng gym, v\u00e0 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean c\u1ee9 h\u00e9t l\u00ean: “Th\u00eam n\u1eefa n\u00e0o!” Hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean mu\u1ed1n ta th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c c\u00e1c c\u01a1 b\u1eafp m\u1ecfi m\u1ec7t r\u00e3 r\u1eddi. T\u1ea1i sao \u01b0? B\u1edfi v\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft n\u00f3 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp \u1edf c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng quen, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00eam c\u01a1 b\u1eafp. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ta h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng trong th\u1ec3 thao m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/em>. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft “ng\u00e3 v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc” \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u01afU T\u1ea6M<\/p>\n

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V\u00ec cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng, ai m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ai m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i cay \u0111\u1eafng nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh l\u00e0 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eadp tan qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 tr\u00e8o l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng t\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f9ng. Ngay t\u1ea1i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[25],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2186"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2186"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2186\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2191,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2186\/revisions\/2191"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tvtinvest.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}